I'll tell you my story

My name is Alexandra, and I accompany people through inner crises and transitions when their old life no longer fits – and the new one isn't yet tangible. I'm a safe haven for people in moments of inner choice – for those struggling with restlessness, perfectionism, self-doubt, or a life that no longer feels like their own. I accompany them in releasing inner pressure, paralyzing patterns, and the fear of change. My coaching is more than a conversation – it's an immersive, creative experience, inspired by the principle of an exit game.

I'm trained as a systemic coach and certified hypnosis practitioner, but my greatest passion lies in creating healing spaces: safe, creative, playful, and deep. That's why I founded nderUm.

I've experienced a lot—not only professionally, but also personally. Moving to another country brought new perspectives, but also loneliness and the quiet farewell to familiar relationships. I've navigated complex, highly competitive work environments, experienced turbulent times within companies, dealt with illnesses in my immediate family, and repeatedly asked myself where I belong. Self-employment brought new freedom—and new insecurity. Perfectionism was my compass for a long time, until I learned that clarity also resides in imperfection. There were phases of existential crises, moments of imposter syndrome, inner questions that didn't get quick answers.

All of this didn’t break me – it shaped me.

This has made me clearer, softer and stronger at the same time.

Today I know: change is not always loud.

Sometimes it begins quietly – with a feeling, an image, a step back into oneself.

These experiences flow into my work—not as a ready-made solution, but as a space in which you can rediscover yourself.

My approach is unusual. I work with stories, symbols, practical prompts, metaphors, and games — and I view every coaching journey as a personal exit game. A path that guides you through hidden inner spaces toward greater self-worth, clarity, and lived change.

The fire salamander accompanies me on this path: an animal that survives transformation and dances with fire.

Just like you – even if you may not feel it right now.

nderUm is my space for you. A space where you can rediscover yourself.

At your pace. At your rhythm. With everything that truly defines you.

My path to coaching began with an inner desire for real change – for myself and for others.

After studying economics, I earned a doctorate, an MBA, and almost two decades of professional experience in auditing, project management, business analysis, and accounting. This time has taught me to recognize complex relationships, analyse with foresight — and always handle confidential matters with sensitivity and respect.

But what truly moves me are people. Their stories. Their disruptions. Their desires.

I am trilingual (German, English, Russian) and accompany people in the language in which they feel emotionally at home.